God absolutely does not hate you. God doesn’t hate anyone. You could do everything in your power to conspire against Him, but that wouldn’t change how much He loves you. There’s not a single person who has ever or will ever exist that God wouldn’t love.
I’m not saying there’s nothing you need to change about yourself, or that there’s a balance between being gay and being a Christian (because I’m sorry, there is no balance, it’s one or the other, God doesn’t share His place in anyone’s heart with sin), but I’m saying God won’t stop loving you no matter what you do. He loves us so much that the sin that traps us breaks His heart. He hates sin because it separates us from Him, even if we don’t think it does. It’s not you He hates, He’s trying to save you from what He hates, from what’s threatening your faith and your soul. There is no good or okay sin, all sins hurt us, even if we like the sin we’ve fallen to.