if you are able and willing, please do this. a lot of babies w/o parents suffer their entire lives because of the lack of human contact from ages 0-3. it helps to hold them, rock them, and sing to them (even if badly). it’s vital.
So this happened to me a few days ago, and I thought maybe sharing my experience could help someone if this happens to them in the future.
I was checking my Tumblr when suddenly I was logged out from it and given the usual Log In page. When I entered the details to access my blog, this appeared:
My heart skipped a bit. I tried to re-enter the details (maybe I got them wrong the first time), but no, the same message about Termination was shown. I typed my blog URL and got the
ominous
:
Same thing with my sideblogs.
So obviously I was very worried. I contacted the Tumblr support but didn’t get an answer for 48 hours, only an automated reply. I already started mentally saying goodbye to my blogs, my posts and all my followers, when finally I recieved their answer:
(In case you can’t see the picture, it says:
Hello, We’ve restored your account. Thank you for bringing this problem to our attention. We’re sorry that it occurred, and we’ll do our best to make sure that it doesn’t happen again. You should now be able to log in just fine with your email address and password. Please let me know if there’s anything else I can help you with.
My blog was restored and working normally. All my sideblogs were intact , and so were my posts and my followers. The only thing that was lost, is all the conversations by Messages. The people with whom you talked are still there, but all the history of the conversation is gone.
Alright so here is what you should do if this happens to you. Don’t panick like I did Click on the “contact support” link provided in the terminated window. Alternatively, go on Tumblr.com/support.
Politely explain your situation – give your blog URL, your mail, tell what happened exactly. I understand that the situation can be upsetting, but the person who will read the message and try to help you isn’t directly responsible for the termination of your blog. And sending an angry message with insults isn’t the best way to get your blog back either.
Wait for the reply of the team. If you feel like it takes too much time (more than few days for example), try to fill the Help/Support form again.
Once the team is in contact with you, keep the polite tone. Normally if your blog didn’t go againt the Tumblr rules and policies, you should getit back like I did.
Voila 🙂
Guys this is important. 2 of my followers and rp partners got their accounts terminated today so be careful
As a white woman, I am so, so sorry that white women keep voting for these disgusting Republican men. I’m heartbroken that Ted Cruz has been re-elected and I am fully aware that white people are dragging this country into fascism. I’m beyond ashamed and I will continue to work even harder as an ally for oppressed and minority groups. Your voices will. be. heard.
As a Jewish-American who had a grandmother survive the camps and testified at a War Tribunal? Please stop using “fascism” like it’s actually happening. You wouldn’t know fascism if it jumped up and bit you.
I apologize if I offended you, you have every right to your opinion. What your family and so many other Jewish families went through was horrific.
I use the word fascism because the politics of country right now are eerily similar to the beginnings of fascist regimes. I’ve attached some links to sources where people who have far more knowledge on the subject than myself talk about their findings.
If you have counter-arguments or articles towards the opposing view I’d love to see them! The last thing I want is for anyone to go through what your grandmother experienced, but I’m absolutely terrified that our country is leaning towards that right now. I’d be happy to listen to any argument that could help prove that wrong.
Again, I apologize if what I said offended you. That was genuinely not my intention!
I assure you we are not moving towards fascism at all.
Again, you are entitled to your opinion but I disagree. If you have any sources or any sort of argument to back up your claim I would be interested to see them!
How about a diary composed by my grandmother that documented the rise of nazism in the twenties to late thirties. I’ve read it and no parallels. And I’ve a father who in addition to a medical degree has a history degree from Norwich College in Interwar Period History. No parralels. There is no fascism here in the US. Before she died this March she voted for Trump and laughed at people saying he was a fascist.
Well, those are uncredited sources that I can’t see so that’s not exactly a solid argument. I thought I might be able to have an intelligent discussion with you on this topic, obviously I was wrong. I’ll leave you alone now, have a nice life!
Wow. So a family diary that was admitted as evidence by allied prosecutors and later the nation of Israel for war crimes prosecution isn’t credited. Amazing how y’all use our history and experiences to further your agenda, but disown our history when it doesn’t fit your narrative.
Show me the diary and I’ll be happy to admit I was wrong! 🙂
You got a plane ticket to Los Angeles. It’s on loan to the Simon Wiesenthal Center as part of their archives.
Well I don’t have the time nor the money to fly to LA and I’m assuming you don’t have any pictures of the diary, so I cannot possibly count it as a credible resource. I believe that puts us at a standstill. I’m pretty sure you’re going to respond to this post again but I’m finished responding to you! You haven’t changed my opinion and I’m sure I can’t change yours. Have a nice life! 👋🏼
“No one will believe the Jew.”- You, 2018. Once again stop offending my people and using our pain to further your agenda. It’s gross. You should consider actually visiting the Simon Wiesenthal Center and listening to what is recorded there. You have a nice day.
‘I don’t like listening to minorities when they go against my agenda.’
“their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools” (Rom. 1) Why? Because people love their sin and wickedness more than they love God. And they think they are wise because of it. “There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end it leads to death.” (Prov. 14:12)
Anon you don’t seem to understand what Hell is, Hell is not being away from the presence of God it is being the in presence of God’s wrath for eternity. Reprobation is real, but right now you have the opportunity to repent and believe on the Lord Jesus, and no one who puts their trust in Him will be put to shame!
There are no second chances when you’re in hell. Please remember this before it becomes too late.
i know it’s scary. trust me, i know. this stuff is hard to talk about, which is why it needs to be addressed
but all the worst things about this world? the pain, the heartache, the wickedness?? that’s gonna be the entirety of hell, and there is absolutely no getting out of it. the only reason this world is slightly bearable is because God is a part of it, but when He’s gone, there will never again be any reason to hope. the good thing about this world is that the pain will eventually pass. nothing lasts forever. in hell, it lasts forever.
what i’ve experienced about God, before my doubts hit and i got into this deep spiritual rut, was that He’s so much more beautiful than you can understand. the absolute best things this world has to offer– laughing with friends until your side hurts, feeling your breath rush in wonder out because the sunset is so beautiful, feeling the affection of someone you love dearly? all that good stuff is microscopic compared to the beauty of God. Jesus is so beautiful and good and interesting He could blow you away for eternity.
He’s offering to literally lavish His love on you and hold you and keep you and protect you. He’s willing to forget your mistakes and sins in an instant and adopt you on the spot. we literally are incapable of understanding how much He absolutely, totally loves us.
following God is worth it. it will be hard, but it’s worth it. i’ve tasted only small, tiny slivers of God so far, but each time, it was enough to totally dazzle me for a good few hours
When you pull out in front of, or slam on your brakes and turn in front of an 18 wheeler, remember this picture. It could be you and your kids in a blink of an eye. And no, having 18 wheels doesn’t make it stop faster than a vehicle with 4 wheels.
Words to live by. I never pull out in front of them. They can’t stop on a dime.
THIS.
Don’t EVER tailgate, cut off, pull out in front of, or slam on your brakes when driving around or in front of a semi.
Your car has significantly less weight to stops than that semi does. You WILL die. End. Of. Story.
You have to make time! Even if you have to get up earlier or go to bed later to spend time with God, do it! Even if you have to put some things to the side to spend more time with God, do it! If you want to see a shift because of a move of God, you have to make time for God. You have to.
Spending time with God will bring you clarity and peace and joy and so many more great things! Make time for God. Don’t put other things before Him. Take everything and put it second and make God FIRST in all that you do. Put God first!
Matthew 6:33
“But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
Proverbs 3:5-6
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.”
I hope that this helps and makes sense. God Bless you!
Okay, I’m done seeing this. I’m done with people like you acting all high and mighty against men because “men are trash” or some other shit you are probably going to reply to me with.
Years ago, my twin brother got into a relationship with a woman. She was sweet, kind, and seemed supportive. The exact kinda relationship you want to see a family member get into. But little by little, day by day, my brother started talking and hanging out with me. At first I thought it was something I did, maybe I said something wrong. But no, this bitch told my brother to stop spending with any female woman he knows, including family. Of course, warning bells go off in my head, but I chose to ignore them. Like you, I was close minded at one point and believed that men couldn’t be abused. I will regret this decision for the rest of my life.
The violence soon began after she trapped him. Yes I use the word trap, because that’s basically what happened. She didn’t let him out of the house because she “loved” him and was scared he would leave her. He wasn’t allowed to go to parties because he might cheat on her. He was alone with this woman, who even controlled how long he spent online and where he went. (She used parent controls.)
The violence began as minor stuff, pushing him or “accidentally” stepping on his feet or hands. But like most domestic violence cases, it just got worst. The big one first happened when she slapped him across the face after he refused to not come to our dad’s birthday celebration. She “apologized” and then said that she wouldn’t do that if he would just listen to her.
He tried, oh gods above did my brother try to keep her happy. It was no longer about because he loved her, but he was scared that she would hurt him or destroy something precious to him. She started misgendering him (my brother transitioned from FtM), insulting him, making fun of his likes and hobbies. She would destroy his photos or personal belongings like clothes.
One day, enough was enough, and after she took paused from punching him during an argument, he pushed her hard enough that she fell to the floor, and he ran to the bathroom to call me to come and help him. At this point, I did basic research about domestic violence against men (something you obviously haven’t OP) and knew something horrible was going on. I quickly drove over to their house, not home… never home, and picked him up as she was screaming on the porch to have him arrested for “hurting” her.
Just a few hours later, after cleaning himself up and me bandaging any wounds on him, the police showed up to our house. Our first though, as Native Hawaiians, was “oh fuck.” So after hearing his side of the story, you know what this PO did? He arrested my brother! On the charges of domestic violence. For you ask? Pushing her. Yeah, that thing my brother did in self defense? Got him arrested.
He soon got released on flimsy charges, and this bitch tried to get together with him again. Not making the same mistake twice, we got him to place a restraining order against her. The police wouldn’t do shit, so he had to get a restraining order.
And after all of this, my brother still doubts that he went through domestic violence, because people like OP exist who believe that women are fragile and weak against the strong and unbreakable men. And let’s just forget about same sex relationships, even though there is a same sex domestic violence epidemic happening.
Ignoring this idiotic, sexist OP for a second. I beg anyone reading this, if you or a love one is going through domestic abuse, or believe you are, I beg you, as someone who made the mistake of not taking action for so long, to not make the same mistake I did. It doesn’t matter if you are a man, woman, or nonbinary. Nobody deserves to go through such a difficult situation, much less to feel like nobody is one their side. (Like OP.) Please, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline. Their number is
y’all are all for men rejecting traditional gender roles and holding hands with their friends and shit but that moment men actually DO that y’all call them gay and ship them together so don’t try and say that “‘society”’ is the only thing fucked up here
If I see one more of those kinds of things as “”“"evidence”“”“ that a celebrity/youtuber/that-shy-boy-in-your-class isn’t straight I’m going to scream, because 1) please allow boys and men platonic affection this is the entire problem and 2) yeah maybe they are but if you’re right that’s just called outing someone and isn’t cool
AngelMihe 