You are loved. You are loved by God, even if you don’t believe in the Christian God. This needs to be said, and I know that there’s someone out there that needs to hear this. God let his son die so that you could be safe. He let his pure, precious son who had done no wrong be beaten, harassed, humiliated, assaulted, and crucified so that you wouldn’t have to suffer, and Jesus was as accepting of this as possible. They both love you. God loves you if you’re gay, God loves you if you’re transgender, God loves you if you’re agender. God wouldn’t let his perfect son suffer such a horrible torment if he didn’t love you. I’m not trying to convert anyone to Christianity, I just want people to know that God and Jesus love you enough to be nailed to a cross, so that you could spend eternity in paradise. When Jesus was on that cross, he was thinking about you, and how you would be able to live a good, long life. So please remember, you are loved.
•your anxiety has made it difficult for you to voice your opinion
•your anxiety has made it difficult to dress the way you want
•your anxiety has made it difficult to ask for help
•your anxiety has made you constantly worry if you are being annoying and wonder if your friends and family are valid relationships or if they just put up with you because they have to
And please know that you are not fighting this battle alone. You are worth more than your anxiety says. You matter and so does your opinion and your say.
You are awesome
A cutie pie, Who deserves daily compliments, snuggling, and a stress-free day.
A cutie pie, that doesn’t deserve anon hate, or the hardships of depression, or the fear that anxiety presses upon you until you feel you cannot breath.
A cutie pie, that is the sweetest person, who is kind, and gentle, and loving no matter what anyone says.
A cutie pie, who is very talented, and has a passion that they pour their soul into, expected little results and it’s the small results that make it worthwhile to them, because they know someone loves what they’ve done, and it makes the hours worth it.
Ya know who that cutie pie is?
Take a look in the mirror my friend, cause it’s you.
there’s no such thing as a stupid reason not to kill yourself.
your school sells cookies on thursdays? your favorite band is coming out with a new album? you’re still saving up for that tattoo? there’s still five sodas in your fridge and it’d be a shame to let them go to waste? you want to see the season finale of that show you love? keep living.
your reasons don’t have to be big, if they mean anything to you then they’re good reasons.
Yes! Just make something to look forward to
Okay but this is honestly true.
One of the closest times I came to committing suicide was when I was home alone for the weekend a few years ago. The reason I didn’t?
No one else was there to feed the cat until Monday.
That’s it. That’s all that saved me.
See, this is such good advice, because it can put you in the frame of mind that you need to be in to combat depression. Even things that seem little, like, “My plant will die if I don’t water it,” or “I’m the only one that takes out the trash, anyways” are examples of how you’re needed and valuable, even appreciated.
There are people out there that need you and love you. Stay alive friend, because it is so worth it.
Draw what you love; for you. not for society. Cause once you draw what others want, your passion for art becomes a prison cell; and that’s not what you want, and m’sure your fans don’t want that too.
Have a break when you really need it. if you’re having a bad day, head outside, read a book, anything to make you feel better. Take your time.
“but…what if they don’t understand?”
They will. You have a life outside of your art; and if some people can’t understand that, screw ‘em.
“they really depend on me..I don’t want to make a mistake”
You’re a human being; we artists are just people, who also make mistakes; we’re not perfect, and we have our darkest days. you’re not here to please people. You’re more than that, you’re here to share your opinions and what you love without hesitation.
that said, it’s worth noting that the part that says people with “seemingly insatiable ‘lust’ are seen as rather normal” is not true. people who experience notably high libidos are stigmatized, have their sexuality medicalized and are otherwise treated as “abnormal” quite often.
raising awareness about demisexuality and letting demisexuals know that they are beautiful and perfect just the way they are is very, very important! but it can be done without spreading misinformation or making light of others’ experiences with sexuality.
AngelMihe 